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Avoiding Interruptions and Completing Discussions

I have been thinking and writing about communication lately–particularly as it relates to parenting and interacting with our children. One of the problems with having discussions and communicating effectively in the family setting can be all the interruptions! This can make it tough to come to resolutions, pay full attention to the problems and issues at hand, and actually complete important discussions with our children. Here are some tips for making communication a priority and NOT giving in to all those potential interruptions: While some interruptions can come from the environment or other people–such as the ringing telephone, a knock … Continue reading →

Keep an Eye Out for the “Buts”

“My child is a really great kid, but…”; “I love the way you straightened your room, but…”; “You did a good job on this school project, but…” Adding in that one little word when it comes to communicating with and about your kids can mean the difference between a great, supportive relationship and one that undermines your child’s self-confidence and creates problems. It is amazing how the slightest and tiniest of words can be so powerful. “But” is just one of those words (“if only” and “don’t you thin?” are other troublesome phrases.) When we tag that on to things … Continue reading →