Expecting Kids to Be Reactionary
When I think back to how I formed my identity and my understanding of myself in my growing up years, I realize that a great deal of it was in direct reaction to my parents. As an adolescent, many of my core decisions were made based on doing the opposite of what my parents did! I wanted to be my own person and all I knew was that my “own person” had to be completely different from who they were. I think we have to expect that our children will start to formulate their own identities based on trying to … Continue reading