More Than Meets the Eye

“Oh my goodness! Look at that strange bird,” I exclaimed while pointing to a black object that kept darting and diving around a sledding hill near our home. “That’s not a bird, Mommy,” replied my 6-year-old. “It’s a helicopter.” Lo and behold my daughter was absolutely right. What I saw as a mutated black buzzard was actually a remote control helicopter being piloted by a neighbor kid. Even with contacts, my 20/500 vision cannot be corrected well enough to compete with my child’s razor-sharp eagle eyes. “I don’t even need binoculars to see,” she added proudly. “My talents are reading, … Continue reading

Ban on Gay Adoption Lifted

Last month I wrote about gay and lesbian families not being allowed to adopt. I find this notion to be absolutely absurd. A person’s sexuality does not define his or her parental ability. With so many children in the foster system awaiting a forever home why would anyone deny available homes prior to all the checks that need to be made? We should be encouraging more people to explore domestic adoption as an option. We should be training more loving foster homes. What adults choose to do with their significant others behind closed doors doesn’t seem like it should even … Continue reading

Hairdo

When I was a little girl I had very long hair. I loved my hair, but I couldn’t stand to have it touch my neck. Every day my mom would brush my hair and put it up in ponytails or braids. I think I was 12 before I would wear my hair down. Even when I would wear my hair loose, I would pin back the front. When Jessie joined our family my mom asked me if she had hair. I told mom that for a blonde baby, she had a lot of hair, but compared to the other baby … Continue reading