This past Sunday my church hosted its annual “Graduation Recognition” night. I really appreciate the fact that they honor our high school graduates. It is yet another way they invest in the lives of the children and youth. In addition to uplifting music, a time of prayer, a reception and other enjoyable aspects, the youth pastor gave a great sermon on “remaking yourself.” He talked about how these graduates have the opportunity to start with a fresh, clean slate. They can be whoever they want to be. Oftentimes in high school you get labeled. Or you are seen as being … Continue reading →

What words would you want spoken to your high school graduate? Would you prefer they receive accolades and praises for all they have accomplished? Or would you like to hear these words, “You aren’t special.” A commencement speech out of Massachusetts has caught the attention of the nation. High school English teacher David McCullough, Jr. had this to say: “None of you is special. You’re not special. You’re not exceptional.” He goes on to say that despite their trophies, report cards, despite the encouragement they have received from others (including the big purple dinosaur “Barney) and no matter how many … Continue reading →

Last week was my son’s high school graduation. It was a special occasion for my husband and I, along with the other parents of the nearly 300 students that graduated from my son’s class. Yes, you read that right…there were almost 300 students who had to walk across the stage. So you can imagine that it was a long evening. From the start, the principal kindly but firmly asked that all parents hold their applause until every name has been read. Not only would it delay the evening but it could prevent the next name from being heard. Cool beans…or … Continue reading →

I am now officially the mother of a high school graduate. It is hard to describe that feeling of watching your son walk across the stage to accept their diploma. A chapter in his life has closed and a new one begins. The past few days I have been doing a lot of reminiscing in my mind. I can still clearly remember the day we brought him home from the hospital. My husband and I couldn’t get enough of him. We took hundreds of pictures and videos. Try to explain to your third child why there are so few of … Continue reading →