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Sarah Palin: Supermom or In Way Over Her Head?

by Michele Cheplic | More from this Blogger

02 Sep 2008 08:07 AM

Republican presidential campaign, vice presidential candidate Sarah Palin shocked some supporters yesterday by announcing that her 17-year-old daughter Bristol is five months pregnant.

According to insiders, Palin, the 44-year-old Alaskan governor and mom of five children released her statement to the media yesterday to combat an Internet rumor that Bristol may have mothered Palin's youngest son, Trig, who was born 4 months ago with Down Syndrome. Apparently, this particular rumor has been circulating for a while, though ever since John McCain selected Palin to be his vice president late last week, the buzz on Bristol has reached epic proportions.

Personally, I don't buy that Palin was influenced by a bunch of ill-informed Internet bloggers in issuing her statement. (What's more, if it weren't for a hurricane named Gustav, I have a feeling Palin's announcement would have gotten even more coverage than it did.) For the record, Down syndrome is a chromosomal abnormality characterized by the presence of an extra copy of genetic material on the 21st chromosome. Any one who knows anything about the condition (or who bothers to research it) knows that maternal age is a huge factor in influencing whether or not a child is conceived with Down Syndrome. Hence, the use of standard prenatal tests to screen for the condition.

Studies show that in pregnant women younger than 24, the probability of conceiving a child with Down Syndrome is one in 1562; at age 35 to 39 the probability is one in 214, and above age 45 the probability is one in 19. Research has also found that paternal age (especially men age 40 and older) also increases the risk of Down Syndrome.

Given the ages of Palin and her teen daughter (while not out of the realm of possibility) it would be extremely unlikely that Bristol would have conceived a child with Down Syndrome. Yet the rumors persisted.

The statement Palin and her husband released to the media yesterday regarding Bristol's pregnancy didn't address the Internet rumor; rather it focused on remaining committed to a daughter who faces a tough few years ahead:

"Bristol came to us with news that as parents we knew would make her grow up faster than we had ever planned. As Bristol faces the responsibilities of adulthood, she knows she has our unconditional love and support."

And so it begins. The talking heads on every cable network comparing Bristol to teen mom Jamie Lynn Spears and the many articles taking jabs at the Palin's parenting skills (or lack thereof in this case-the latest being that if Sarah Palin had put her family before her intense desire to succeed in her career her daughter probably wouldn't have turned to a teen boy for love and thus wouldn't be pregnant). By the way, Palin's political rival, Democratic presidential nominee Barack Obama said being a son of a teenage mother himself he refuses to make Bristol's situation an issue and implored the media to leave the pregnant teen alone.

As for the father of Bristol's unborn child, 18-year-old Levi Johnston is making headlines himself. In Palin's statement yesterday she mentioned that Bristol and Levi intend to marry, only now some are saying that may be wishful thinking on the governor's part.

According to TMZ.com, Johnston is not exactly prime marriage material. He states so himself on his MySpace page, which is laced with profanities and clearly suggests that he is more interested in playing hockey than being a husband and father. "I don't want kids," Johnston writes on his MySpace page. Of course, what teenage boy really wants to deal with the ramifications of having premarital sex?

Which brings us back to Sarah Palin. Regardless of your political affiliation you have got to wonder how this woman is keeping it all together right now. Not only is she competing for the job of second in command on the worldwide stage, but she's also breastfeeding an infant with special needs, dealing with criticism that she married a "wussy," coping with the fact that her teen daughter is about to be a mother, and having to confront those who say her parenting skills "stink." Talk about a full plate.

What are your thoughts on Sarah Palin? Is she supermom or just someone who has bitten off more than she can chew?

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Michele Cheplic was born and raised in Hilo, Hawaii, but now lives in Wisconsin. Michele graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison with a degree in Journalism.

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Samual (11722) 02 Sep 2008 03:27 PM

Supermum, maybe I should try neglecting my children, then I can be called superdad.

Courtney Mroch (9169) 04 Sep 2008 02:33 PM

PHENOMENAL article, Michele! First off, Wayne and I believe as you do: thank heavens for Gustav so they could release the info about Bristol.

Second, one of McCain's spokespeople contradiced herself in an interview about why they released the news about the pregnancy. They were trying to pin it on the liberal blogger and the speculations Trigg was Bristol's baby, but then they gave another reason why they released it. (Of course I can't remember it now, but it had totally contradicted their claims that they were coming out about it because of the blog rumors.)

Third, you can bet if any Democrat had any of this happen the Republicans would hand them a hanky if they asked to leave the children out of it and keep this stuff private fo the family to deal with.

Fourth, I doubt Bristol would have had a chance to get pregnant if both parents had been around more and not consummed with work. How the heck can you raise 5 kids and help run a country? Sure, she can get nannies and stuff, but our tax dollars are going to pay for that. Yet other working moms, moms who have to work because in some cases they're the sole provider, don't benefit from tax-payer funded care services.

I don't think she's a Supermom. I think she's a Supermom wannabe. (I also think she's a neat lady, don't get me wrong, but I don't buy into having too many pokers in the fire all at once. It's being proven more and more often that multitasking isn't good or effective, and that's essentially what she's doing with all she's bitten off.) I think she'd be better off being a mom to her special needs baby, and the rest of her kids, and still being the governor of Alaska rather than the US. Not sure I want her in if McCain croaks.

Michele Cheplic Online! (37339) 05 Sep 2008 04:59 AM

Thanks Courtney!

Andrea Hermitt Online! (5507) 05 Sep 2008 12:32 PM

I think she is deluded if she thinks that she can do both jobs, home and politics well. I feel like she is in over her head as her history is already showing. Here's to hoping dad steps in soon.

swtuthmommy3 (130) 05 Sep 2008 01:25 PM

I feel she has bitten more than she can chew. It appears that her main focus is her career. Although I have heard that her husband stays at home with their children. Maybe he'll be the one to mostly raise their youngest children. Here's an article I found on Sarah's husband - rather interesting - http://dwb.adn.com/news/politics/story/8924080p-8824177c.html

deedee1231 (4030) 05 Sep 2008 01:57 PM

I disagree that she has "bitten off more than she can chew" She is poised and confident in the political arena and she is a very competent and effecient woman. Women can certainly be mothers and have careers. This is 2008 after all, not 1908!

Michele Cheplic Online! (37339) 06 Sep 2008 04:42 AM

Win or lose her life will never be the same again and come December when she becomes a grandparent the media spotlight we be even brighter. Thanks for the comments ladies!

Courtney Mroch (9169) 08 Sep 2008 09:57 AM

I more than agree with you, DeeDee1231, that this IS 2008 and not 1908, women and women's rights have made HUGE strides and amen for that, but...it's no secret that us girls STILL are the ones primarily responsible for house and children --even when we do hold outside jobs. I can't remember the lady's name I saw on an interview about this recently, but this is the reason there are so many depressed, unhappy, and overmedicated (meaning on Zoloft and Prozac) women these days. We delude ourselves thinking we can do it all. That we can be equal to men.

She brought up the point that it's still majority rules when it comes to single moms. There are some single dads out there, but that's the exception. And even with married couples, with both spouses working, it's still the mom who's overwhelmingly responsible for getting the kids up, dressed, and to school in the a.m., as well as picking them up after, because husbands don't. Unless asked. (not in all cases, obviously, but most of them)

It's such an unrealistic, not to mention silly, goal to strive for. (Being equal to men.) When did we get the notion we weren't? Just because we're not men? We are not men. We are women. By nature we are nurturing and compassionate. This does not mean we should not have jobs. Please, please, please don't take me to mean that. But historically men have always had wives to rear the children and run the homes to free them to concentrate on their work pursuits. It also doesn't mean we're less than or not equal to. We're just different. No one would expect an apple to suddenly be like an orange!

All I'm saying is that for the most part women don't have the same luxury as men when children are involved. Unless their husband is a stay-at-home dad. Granted, Palin's husband does sound to participate in his childrens' lives. But he kind of has to because guess what the wife's doing?

And this is great. More power to her if she can step up like that. My concern is not that she's doing it. It's that hopefully someone (preferably one of the parents) is loving up those kids. She had them, they should come first and their needs shouldn't be neglected!

Michele Cheplic Online! (37339) 09 Sep 2008 06:14 PM

Thanks for the articulate comment Courtney!!

Tristi Pinkston (10839) 19 Sep 2008 08:07 PM

Teen mothers come from all demographics, from parents who work to parents who are home all the time. A lot of it comes from the personality of the individual and we can't say, "Well, she never would have gotten pregnant if ..." I've known a great many teen moms who were raised in homes where both parents were very present, very committed, and very approachable.

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